The One That Got Away.

The one that got away wasn’t the one, and if they are, they will come back. Every now and again I think of mine. How he got away. How I’ll  probably never see him again. And I’m actually okay with it. Its been years since I last saw him. He randomly comes up in my dreams which is weird and a bit annoying because why? He’s happy. I’m happy.

But the what ifs, the what could have been, right?

I believe in reincarnation.

I believe in soulmates.

If they aren’t your soulmate in this life. Maybe they will be in the next one.  I know I’m a hopeless romantic. I also don’t believe anyone ends up with an unhappy ending at the end of their life.

Everyone’s ‘one that got away’ is different whether you started a relationship with them or not, why you guys broke up, why things ended.

So I guess the question is, Do you have  ‘one that got away’?

There will be “the one that didn’t get away”. And He’s the one, they areyour one 🙂

Sincerely Yours, Jolee G.


Bookshelf Decor

I think everyone who knows me can easily say I have a lot of.. stuff. And its very true. I barely even have anymore room on my walls. Books and creating things is big part of my life and I love it, and I feel like my bookshelf shows both of those sides equally.


I bought this mini canvas and easel at Walmart with my niece, she painted on hers but I think I’m going to leave mine alone, and this 6″ wooden model from Barnes and Noble. I took art (for the first time) my senior year of high school, and fell in love with art especially still life.


Any Harry Potter fans out there? I think you can tell already, I made this. But it was actually pretty fun to make.


This is my recent addition to the bookshelf (and also my favorite). I was inspired by Emma Chapman’s (from abeautifulmess) version,

 I didn’t exactly have space, or the same supplies, but I loved the idea, so I figured why not recreate it (in some way)









(left) My bookshelf is right next to my bed, so it acts as a bedside table so I keep things there when I don’t exactly want to walk across the room & This wasn’t on purpose but these stacked mugs remind me of Mr. Mad Hatter.(right) My Looney Tunes frame with a picture of my family (which I blacked out) I’ve had as long as I can remember. And lastly, I filled an old vase with shells I collected from a beach vacation I took with my sisters.

I’ve loved adding things up there, making it a little more personal even if its a little messy. As you can see from my books I’ve run out of shelf space for them as well.

Do you fill your bookshelves with things other than books?

Sincerely Yours, Jolee G.

Do You Need Advice?

I’ve always loved giving my friends and family advice. It makes me feel good! Even if they don’t always take it. I’ve also always loved helping people, with either my hands, money, etc, that’s mainly why I created this blog in the first place. So I guess this is a new way to help people, one on one.

So if you want to ask me anything. You are welcome here! Maybe you want a biased opinion? This is free, I’m not a professional, psychic, or anything really. Please don’t be too vague and don’t give me a one sentence question. I just like giving my opinions to those who want and need it.

When I answer you, I will be putting up your question and your first name for privacy (but if you would like I will put it out as anonymous.) on this blog. I will answer you back no later than a week or two of when you send it to me. I will also send you back an email when I put your answers on here.

Send me your questions through email, at

Sincerely yours, Jolee G.